Written by Karlie Eichelberger
If you’re anything like me, writing letters to your sponsored child is something you really want to do well, but it can be hard to know what to say or when to sit down and actually write. Life gets full, and even meaningful things can get pushed to the side.
One thing that has been helpful for me is thinking about letter writing in the context of the year. Instead of waiting until the “perfect” time or the “perfect” words, you can let the seasons, celebrations, and everyday moments guide what you write. You can even add a few reminders to your calendar during months that feel less busy, so you have space to write at a time that works best for you.
Your letters do not need to be long or impressive. They are simply a reminder to your child that they are known, cared for, and loved by God.
Whether your child writes monthly from Moldova or quarterly from the Amazon, here are a few simple ideas to help you stay connected throughout the year:
January: New Year Letter Ideas
The beginning of the year is a natural time to talk about fresh starts. Ask what they are looking forward to this year or what goals they have. You can also share something you are hoping for in the year ahead and remind them that God has a plan for their life.
February: Encouraging Your Sponsored Child
February is a good time to focus on love and connection. Ask what they love most right now, like favorite activities, people, or hobbies. You might also share a few things you love and remind them that they are deeply loved by God.
March: Hobbies and Interests
As the year picks up, March is a great time to discuss activities and interests. Ask what they like to do for fun or how they spend time with friends. You can share your own hobbies and encourage the gifts God has given them.
April: Easter Letter Ideas
April often includes Easter, which is a meaningful time to share about faith. Ask how they celebrate Easter or what traditions they enjoy. You can also share a favorite Easter memory and remind them of the hope we have through Jesus.
May: People Who Care for Us
May is a thoughtful time to talk about the people who care for us. Ask about the women in their lives who are important to them. You can share about someone who has encouraged you and reflect on how God provides people to care for us.
June: Mentors and International Children’s Day
In a similar way, June can be a time to talk about the men your child looks up to. Ask if there is someone they admire or learn from. You can share about a mentor or someone who has guided you. It is a simple way to point to the ways God provides people to walk alongside us.
If you sponsor a child in Moldova, June 1st is International Children’s Day, which is often marked by community events, time outdoors, and simple celebrations focused on children. You might ask what they did to celebrate or what a fun day with friends looks like for them. It can also be a chance to encourage them and remind them that their life is important and that God sees and cares for them.
July: Identity and Purpose
July is a great opportunity to talk about identity and purpose. Ask about traditions in their family or community. You can share something meaningful from your own life and remind them they were created with purpose.
August: School and Learning
As routines shift and school often begins again, August is a great time to ask about learning. Ask what their favorite subject is or what they enjoy about school. You can also share something you are learning and encourage them as they grow.
September: Understanding Daily Life
As seasons begin to change, you can ask your child what this time of year looks like where they live. Ask what the season is like and what they enjoy about it. This helps you better understand their daily life and environment.
October: Creativity and Children’s Day in Brazil
October is a great time to talk about creativity and fun. Ask what they enjoy doing in their free time, like art, music, or games. You can also share something creative you enjoy.
If you sponsor a child in Brazil, October is also when Children’s Day is celebrated on October 12th. This is a special day dedicated to celebrating and valuing children, often featuring fun activities, games, and time together. You might ask your child how they celebrate Children’s Day or what they enjoy most about it. It can also be a meaningful opportunity to remind them that they are seen, valued, and deeply loved by God.
November: Gratitude
November is a natural time to talk about gratitude. Ask what they are thankful for right now. You can share a few things you are thankful for and reflect on God’s care in everyday life.
December: Christmas Letter Ideas
December is centered on Christmas and the celebration of the birth of Jesus. Ask how they celebrate Christmas and what traditions they have. You can share your own traditions and remind them of the hope and joy that comes through Christ.
Birthdays: Writing a Birthday Letter to Your Sponsored Child
Birthdays are important milestones. Even a short note that says you are thinking of them can mean so much. Wish them a happy birthday and ask how they like to celebrate. You can find your sponsored child’s birthday on their sponsorship packet or at the end of their biography in your sponsor portal. You should also receive an email in advance to let you know their birthday is approaching. Taking a moment to write helps your child feel remembered and celebrated.
Why Writing to Your Sponsored Child Matters
Writing throughout the year does not have to be complicated. A few thoughtful sentences at a time can build a meaningful connection. As you write, you are reminding your child that they are not alone, that they are cared for, and that God sees them in every season.
Ready to Write a Letter to Your Sponsored Child?
The best time to start is simply when you have a moment.
You can log into your sponsor portal and write your child a letter today. Even a few sentences can go a long way in encouraging them and reminding them that they are loved.
Author: Karlie Eichelberger
Sponsorship Coordinator, Justice & Mercy International
304 44th Ave. N
